Big Family... Good? No Good?

Today is not a special day, i wonder whether am i luckily to born in such big family? People keep trying to take advantage from us and saying something that is fake to spoilt our name. Why? If you try to take something that is not belong to you, i don't think is right. How come they can be so bad till steal all your things and pretend nothing happen and is reasonable to have it? They do not have to work for anything and just think of the idea to get something from you or threaten your family. They will not be shy or embarrass after taking advantage on people? I trusted that if you treat people badly, in the end you will double pay to their family. They still can sleep soundly or having nightmare every night? So, please think before you do. Is good to have this kind of relative, so that we know that in this world no matter what you cant trust anyone and have to beware of them. We had learn many many lesson, so we can protect ourselves and prevent bad things happen to us. We have to be strong and do not let the bad people to have chance to hurt our family and friend. :)